The Fearless Caregiver Manifesto
I will fearlessly assess my personal strengths and weaknesses, work diligently to bolster my weaknesses and graciously recognize my strengths.
I will fearlessly make my voice be heard with regard to my loved one's care and be a strong all to those professional caregivers committed to caring for my loved one and a fearless shield against those not committed to caring for my loved one.
I will fearlessly not sign or approve anything I do not understand and will steadfastly request the information I need until I am satisfied with the explanations.
I will fearlessly ensure that all of the necessary documents are in place for my wishes and my loved one's wishes to be met in case of medical emergency. These will include Durable Medical Powers of Attorney, Wills, Trusts and Living Wills.
I will fearlessly seek out other caregivers or care organizations and join an appropriate support group. I will develop a personal support system of friends and family and remember that others also love my loved one and are willing to help.
I will fearlessly care for my physical and emotional health as well as I care for my loved one. I will allow myself to take respite breaks and to care for myself on a regular basis.
I will fearlessly honor my loved one's wishes, unless these wishes endanger their health or mine.